Today I wanted to talk about female characters and more specifically how to write strong female characters. Now strong female characters have warped into their own cliché and stereotyped forms of the kick-ass heroine who would rather knock you out than talk to you. So how do we give strength to our female characters without the stereotypes? Let’s take a look.
Write people first and women second. Your character is a human first and foremost.
She has to have a goal that affects the plot significantly. She has to have a purpose other than being the love interest.
She is flawed and complex. Humans aren’t perfect and neither should our characters be, no matter how strong they are.
She has a dynamic arc, meaning she changes and grows as a character from beginning to end.
She has agency. Things don’t just happen to her, she makes decisions for herself that drive the plot forward.
One misconception people have about strong female characters is that strong equals masculine. But strong isn’t just about fighting and keeping up with the boys. Your strong female doesn’t have to hate all things girly. Liking girly things doesn’t make her weak. And making her super good at “guy” stuff for no reason doesn’t make her strong either. There are different types of strong from the physical to cleverness to being a good leader to strong communication skills. Value her strengths over her beauty and use different types of strength to empower your female characters.
Don’t turn her into any object, sexual or otherwise. She should never be the prize for any character to win and most strong women are not overtly sexual in order to manipulate others. And what is she like when she isn’t kicking ass? Don’t forget to give her a personality to go along with all those “strong female” characteristics. Stay away from the clichéd troubled past that makes her closed off and a jerk until she learns how to let people in. We want our characters to be relatable so make sure they’re not a jerk who people somehow still like and put up with. And strong women can and do cry. Emotional strength isn’t about never crying. She’s a human, not a robot.
Stay away from stereotypes and clichés when writing truly strong female characters and remember strength comes in many forms. What stereotypes of strong female characters do you hate? Did I miss anything crucial in building a strong female character? Let me know in the comments below and happy writing.